Cut Your Bond To Clutter

f the worst habits a person can fall into is hangingbecause of memory impairment. Elderly people
onto things no longer needed. Learning to let gowho suffer memory loss may forget things
of clutter is one of the hardest things for athey’ve already bought and end up with
packrat to learn. Some people just see to bean entire drawer or cabinet of one type of item.
born with a tendency to hoard things.It’s interesting to attend a garage sale
Sometimes a person has a problem with lettingand see just what constitutes clutter to different
go of clutter because of a poor financial statefamilies. The kids decide to let go of toys
they were forced to endure. Children growing upthey’ve outgrown, teens will let go of
with little to claim as their own may develop abooks they no longer read or music they no
habit of hoarding things once they acquire alonger play. Kids outgrow clothes and styles. A
better lifestyle. A person constantly on the movehusband decides he no longer needs certain tools
in their younger years may hoard clutter onceor camping equipment once the kids have grown
they settle down.up and moved away.
An older person who has lost a loved one mayLetting go of clutter can be sad in some cases.
have a hard time letting go of any clutter thatYou realize you really have no reason to hold
belonged to their loved one.onto your child’s first grade drawings or
A parent whose child has run away or beenthat toy car collection. Maybe Aunt Sallie is gone
kidnapped or slipped into a coma may not be ablenow, and you still have her hundreds of crochet
to let go of the clutter belonging to that child.books and never cared to learn to crochet
Some people enjoy being a person someone canyourself.
go to when they need something. To let go ofLetting go of also be a time to shut the door on
clutter is to let go of a part of whothe past or to end habits and start over fresh.
they’ve become. They use the excuseNew beginnings can be scary and invigorating at
that something useless may someday come inthe same time. Ask a college student having to
handy for someone. Like when a child will brag onclean out their clutter so they can earn some
a grandparent because they always have justmoney to help pay their tuition or fuel for their
what they were looking for. To let go of cluttercar.
may make them feel they’re losing aAsk a high school student having to clean out
connection that draws others to them in times oftheir bedroom at their parents’ house
need.because they’re moving away to another
It’s a source of amazement to discoverstate for school or a job opportunity. But clutter
what an elderly person could not let go of whenis just that---stuff. Clean out the old and make
it’s time to hold an estate sale for theirroom for the new.
belongings. Sometimes they will acquire clutter